We’ve all been there. You spend days, maybe weeks, weighing up a choice. You finally pull the trigger, feel a brief flash of relief, and then, within minutes, the "What Ifs" start clawing at the door.

If you’re a serial second-guesser, you aren’t being thorough. You’re being stuck. And honestly? It’s exhausting.

Have you ever found yourself stuck between options, trying to work out which one is “best”?

I have many times found myself in this position.

Sometimes I wanted to know I was making the right choice. Other times, I wanted to know I was getting the best value.

It could be about big things and small things… sometimes I felt like I was the most indecisive person in the world and I found it extremely frustrating being unable to make a decision, in good time. 

If you’ve spent years putting everyone else first, meeting expectations, ticking the boxes, doing what should be done, and you’re now asking, what do I actually want? it’s completely normal to not have an answer.

If you’ve ever caught yourself circling the “what ifs,” replaying old conversations, or obsessively weighing up every possible path… you’ve probably told yourself you “overthink.”

But have you ever considered that overthinking isn’t your problem, but rather it’s your lack of clarity?

If you’ve been trying to change your life, even in small ways, going home for Christmas can feel like hitting “reset” on all your progress.

You walk through the door and suddenly you’re acting like the old version of you again.
Quieter, more accommodating, cautious. Saying yes when you really mean no. Taking on responsibility no one asked for but everyone expects.

You’re standing at a crossroads, ready for your next chapter, but you just can’t take that step forward. You feel stuck. Frozen. The fear of change kicks in and suddenly you’re caught between two options: take the leap and risk “failure”, or stay exactly where you are and regret it later. How do you overcome that fear of change and move forward?

If life feels a bit “off” right now, you’re not imagining it. Something inside you is asking for more—and this blog shows you how to listen, get honest, and start shifting into a chapter that actually feels like yours.

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We all face moments when life feels like it could go in different directions. A crossroads can be exciting, but it can also feel confusing — especially when you’re not sure which step to take next. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck at these turning points, this article will show you how to uncover the hidden patterns shaping your choices and introduce the one question that can bring the clarity you’ve been craving.